@Bowea: Thanks, the last month or so with all these issue have made me want to tear my hair out. Mostly I don't feel that patient, if only rolling my eyes, sighing, and shaking my fist at the computer monitor would fix the problems
Forumer wasn't previously this bad. The ownership changed and then they decided to move all the forums to new servers and upgrade all the forum software at the same time. IMO, that was a mistake. I think it would have been a much better idea to change the servers THEN upgrade the forums software. But until the forum disappeared and all the problems came back with it, I had no idea either was happening.
The issues with the forum not loading, posting, or being slow and requiring multiple clicks to do things is a site wide issue, it's been happening to me, bev, and a number of other forums (if not all other forums) as well. They say it's something they're working on, but I see no evidence of improvement

I'll definitely take a look at zetaboards! I really hope it doesn't get to the point where it will just be easier to move the forum again, but if it does that's the first one I'll check out!
@Jen: the users not staying logged in is another issue that's happening across the whole site, it's one of the items on my list that they're looking into, but hasn't been fixed yet. If you do come across any issues or any bugs, please mention them here so I can check the help forum to see something that others are experiencing as well, or if it's something I can fix.
At this point there probably isn't much I can do until the underlying problems are worked out by forumer. But if there are new things, I can get us added to the list of forum having the issue in the help forum so at least the forum admins know that we're among those having the problems.
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